Let us try and understand the
functioning of the left and right side of the brain.
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Left side |
Right side |
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Conditioned |
The Subconscious linked to Super
conscious |
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Active |
Imaginative |
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Assertive |
Intuitive |
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Logical |
Receptive |
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Deductive |
Clairvoyant |
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Rational |
Sadness |
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Male aspects of character |
Female aspects of character |
We are all aware that we have an inner mind, which
is called' subliminal', 'subjective', 'id' or the
subconscious mind. Freud was one of the first who
gave an insight into the functioning of the subconscious
mind linking it with the causes of various diseases.
Dr Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist, termed the
spiritual part of the mind as super conscious, which
was directly connected to God.
The subconscious mind works like a computer. The
subconscious mind inspires, guides and is a permanent
storehouse of memory. Our mind remembers everything
we see, feel and experience but to recall is difficult.
It is said that the subconscious mind has a memory
capacity of 70-100 trillion images because all our
feelings, emotions and experiences are stored within
us as an image or sound. Just as a computer digitizes
everything, our brain too does the same.
Subconscious mind never sleeps, never rests and
is always on duty because it controls our heartbeat,
circulation of blood, regulates digestion, assimilates,
harmonizes and eliminates. It controls all the vital
processes and functions of our body and knows the
answers to all our problems.
The objective mind learns from observation, experience,
education and its great function is reasoning, whereas
the subjective mind performs its highest function
when our objective senses are in abeyance.
Thoughts are conveyed via the conscious mind to
the subconscious by impression made in the brain
cells like an image or a movie. It uses every bit
of information gathered in our life time and draws
all the energy and wisdom within us to bring solutions
to our problems.
Suppose one had been bitten by a dog at the age
of 10, one will continue to be scared of dogs for
the rest of his/her life viewing it from the childhood
experience. This is because our subconscious mind
remembers the incident. The conscious mind may forget
but the subconscious mind remembers in greatest
detail unless the event is cancelled from the memory.
Subconscious mind is always awake whether one is
asleep, unconscious, under drug or alcohol effect
or under coma. One of its functions is to guard
us from harm and danger, yet ironically it also
causes illness and even self-destruction.
Subconscious mind is infinite intelligence possessed
by man beyond time and space, and it helps us to
receive new thoughts, ideas, business plans, discoveries,
inventions, and knowledge of nature.
Subconscious mind has the habit of taking everything
literally. If we keep on thinking that we will never
succeed in a particular venture, it is most likely
that we will not because we are blocking all positive
energy flow into the subconscious. This results
only in negative energy getting attracted. Therefore,
it is we who are responsible for our successes and
failures in life.
If we have conveyed an erroneous concept to our
subconscious mind the method of overcoming it is
by repetition of constructive and harmonious thoughts,
positive attitude and visualizing a happy ending
rather than negative thoughts and suggestions.
Doctors have recognized this fact about the mind
hence, however complex the operation maybe, they
keep on encouraging the patients just before an
operation.
During the post operative period visitors are not
allowed near the patient because any negative suggestion
given will go deep into the patient's subconscious
mind thereby damaging whatever had been done to
rectify the patient's state of health through the
operation.
It is very important that we do not use negative
suggestions with growing children as it gets rooted
in their subconscious mind and reflects later in
his/her behavior. This effect can be seen in their
behavior, hostility, anxiety, lack of confidence,
etc. Whatever one believes in one's mind is what
we experience physically in the outside world. We
have two sides of life objective-subjective, visible-invisible,
thought-manifestation.
Even prayers and beliefs are positive signals, which
we give to our subconscious mind as something acceptable
and true. The thought, which is acceptable as true,
will automatically execute itself. When we believe
we are healthy we will remain healthy as our subconscious
mind keeps our immune system in perfect condition.
Bhagwan Sathya Sai Baba says, "Faith is the root
of tree of mankind on which it survives".
Faith is the starting point of our spiritual and
mental progress. In India we can find umpteen examples
of faith, belief and superstitions. These can be
explained scientifically whereas many are blindly
followed. Faith and belief which are for our own
and universal good are acceptable. However, faith,
which brings injury to others, either mental or
physical, is not acceptable.
Baba said we should develop a sense of Viveka (discrimination),
which will help us to demarcate good and bad things.
This demarcation comes from Jnana (knowledge). A
child who utters bad words may not know the meaning
of it hence one should explain the meaning of the
word to him so that he does not repeat it.
While praying we do not give any thoughts to negative
conditions. This attitude of mind brings a harmonious
union of conscious and subconscious mind, which
releases the healing power.
In India, we frequently visit temples and shrines
and pray. Temples and holy places have positive
energies due to the repetition of God's name, songs,
mantras, etc, which soothe our mind. We feel calm
and respond in these places with openness. Our subconscious
mind unfolds the knot of our problems and gives
us the solutions.
During every moment of our life we harbor more negative
energies than positive one. Whatever we see around
us makes an impact on the subconscious mind and
remains deep rooted till reprogramming is done.
Dr. Bruce Goldberg in his book has proved that subconscious
mind does not only have memory of our present life
but also of the past lives. The subconscious mind
may not want us to know anything of the past as
per the wisdom it possesses and may decide not to
give us any information at all of the past lives
that may affect our present life.
However, by scientific hypnosis and past life regression,
anyone can go back and witness their life as it
was.
Some people having peculiar behavioral problems
have been regressed to there past lives to find
the cause of the problem in their present life.
When the cause is healed the problem disappears
instantly.
Subconscious mind never grows old. It is ageless,
timeless and endless. Hence it is very important
to develop patience, kindness, humility, will power,
and responsibility for oneself, peace, harmony,
hope and brotherly love towards every creation of
GOD.
The subconscious mind can be dealt with creative
visualization, positive affirmations and self-hypnosis
to bring harmony and balance in all aspects of your
life.
How negative attitudes affect a person?
- One parent used to tell his child almost everyday,
"You will become a useless person and never
become something in life." When the child became
an adult, he was a failure in all aspects of
life. Finally, he became a priest and found
solace. Parents should be cautious and not use
any negative words or commands while dealing
with their children.
- A teacher used to motivate his pupils by saying,
"Try and try again, you will succeed. Work hard
and pray to God for success." Thus his student
turned out to be toppers in academics and brought
many laurels to the school. The encouraging
words of the teacher worked like magic. (It
is better to keep on encouraging, rewarding
and praising the children for slightest good
done by them. After all there is a deep desire
within all of us to be appreciated.
- A widow used to tell her daughter after puberty
to be careful of men as they were cheats, opportunists
and sex maniacs. This influenced her and she
hated men till her late thirties until she met
a loving and caring man. She let go of her mother's
influence. (The mother had spoilt an innocent
child's attitude towards men just because she
herself was a victim of terrible experiences).
- A young boy when caught masturbating by his
father was told that he would become insane.
That boy became impotent. Later his problem
vanished after scientific counseling and reassurance.
(Often impotence is not an organic defect but
arises due to deep emotional guilt, which can
be easily cured by reprogramming the subconscious
mind through positive affirmations.)
- A man met with an accident and fractured his
leg. He happened to overhear his doctor saying
that he would never be normal again and that
he would always limp. This man although clinically
certified to be fit, walked with a limp until
he met a mind trainer who succeeded in canceling
the negative thought from his mind.
There are innumerable examples to prove beyond doubt
that subconscious mind remembers the past life as
well as present. There is chance that our conscious
mind may sometimes forget certain incidences but
our subconscious mind remembers everything. It also
causes all the emotional and physical disorders
arising due to these deep-rooted memories.
Any passing comments or trivial statements can have
a devastating effect on our subconscious mind because
it is not argumentative or analytical. It accepts
all the statements directly on the face value.
It is very imperative that we do not become sad
and depressed as negative thoughts crowd the subconscious
mind which could react immediately or maybe after
several years. It is the responsibility of elders
and parents to be very careful in using words when
they are amidst children in the formative years
as during this time the mind takes concrete shape
for many years to come.
Some positive tips for perennial happiness:
- If someone has hurt you physically or verbally,
forgive him or her.
- If someone tries to belittle you ignore him
or her.
- If someone you advise does not wish to listen
to you, leave that person to face his own fate.
- If you help someone, do not expect anything
in return. Conflicts between spouses or parent-children
arise due to very high expectations.
- If you have a special talent or God gift do
not become egoistic and haughty about it or
consider yourself superior to others.
- If someone is jealous of you and your achievements,
sympathies with them.
- Learn to channels your desire into higher
creativity and consciousness by adopting meditation.
- Keep away from malice, as they will not give
you perpetual happiness.
- Learn to set new goals in life as this will
keep your life interesting and full of zeal
and zest.
Baba says, "Life is a challenge, face it. Life is
love enjoy it. Life is a song, sing it". Love is
the common denominator for all maladies in life.
So we need to develop unconditional love for everything-our
work, profession, family, neighbors, GOD, and people
we meet socially